One of the fastest ways to change what you do is to change what the people around you consider normal. Humans imitate. It’s efficient, and it keeps you included.
You tend to copy three groups: the close (family and friends), the many (the tribe), and the powerful (those with status). If your environment rewards a habit socially, it becomes attractive even when it’s hard.
So engineer belonging. Join a culture where the behavior you want is the default. If everyone you train with shows up, missing feels strange. If your peers read, reading feels like identity, not effort. This isn’t about becoming a follower. It’s about letting social gravity pull you in the direction you already chose. When your habits fit your community, you stop relying on solitary discipline. You borrow motivation from the room.
