To see what matters, you need space away from the noise that insists everything matters. This chapter defends absence—not as neglect, but as a strategic condition for clarity.
Being constantly reachable creates a life of reaction. You answer the latest message, then the next one, and gradually confuse responsiveness with value. The book argues for deliberate “escape” periods where you are not on call: time to think, to read, to reflect, to notice what your schedule hides.
The perks are practical. Distance makes priorities legible. It also reveals which demands are real and which are merely habitual.
Escape is framed as a form of leadership over your own mind: if you never step back, you can’t tell whether you’re building anything—or just keeping up.