Consistency isn’t perfection; it’s recovery speed. Missing once is an event. Missing twice is the start of a new habit.
Expect disruption: travel, sickness, deadlines, low energy. Your system should include a plan for bad days. When you fall off, return to the smallest version immediately. One page. One walk. Two minutes. You’re protecting the identity of someone who comes back.
Tracking helps here, not as judgment, but as awareness. It shows patterns: which days break you, which triggers derail you, which environments help you. Use the data to adjust the system, not to shame the person.
The rule is simple: never miss twice. The first miss should create friction that pushes you back, not a story that you “failed.” What matters is the trend line. You build trust with yourself by keeping promises small and frequent, then expanding them when they’re stable.
