Perfection provokes quiet hostility. If you seem flawless, people search for cracks, or they create them, just to bring you down to their level.
Never appear too perfect. Reveal a harmless weakness, a small mistake, a human detail that costs you nothing. It lowers tension and disarms envy. People relax when they feel you are not untouchable.
This is not self-sabotage. It is social armor. Give others a safe way to feel superior so they stop competing with you. A tiny imperfection can protect you from larger attacks.
Also, perfection makes accusations believable. When you look too polished, a single rumor feels like “the truth finally revealed.” When you look human, rumors feel less convincing.
You can still be excellent. Just avoid being an impossible statue. Excellence with warmth attracts allies. Perfection attracts enemies. If you must be perfect, be perfect in private. In public, let a small flaw signal humility and reduce hostility. Envy needs a target. Do not present one.