In political environments, blunt honesty is clumsy. The perfect courtier reads hierarchy, senses mood, and applies pressure without appearing aggressive.
Make superiors feel secure while you become essential. Correct privately. Praise publicly. Never steal the spotlight, and never make someone powerful feel embarrassed. Manage rivals with charm and timing, not open hostility, unless protection is absolute.
Learn etiquette as strategy: who speaks first, who jokes, who gets offended, who forgives. Adjust your behavior to the room while keeping your intent hidden. The courtier makes ambition look like service.
This is not fake politeness. It is survival skill. A court rewards those who can influence outcomes while appearing agreeable. The point is control without fingerprints. When you master tone, timing, and discretion, you can move decisions without provoking resistance. You win by making others feel comfortable as they do what you want.